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"Cognitive development is done after the age of 25 and as executive functioning comes into play connecting today's actions with tomorrow's desires begins to be the driving force in healthy people's lives.
People discover what they want and start seeking partners who can give it to them." Because your goals after 30 may be quite different than your dating goals from your 20s, dating apps may not be the best bet for meeting people.
"It seems that around age 30, men start looking for younger women to date, which narrows the dating pool significantly.
Younger women are perceived as more 'fun' with fewer expectations and a more youthful appearance and body." Ryan said that many men even limit their online dating searches to only women up to age 35, regardless of how old they are themselves.
"There is very little that we can do about this, but accepting this reality is important when setting expectations for dating." Another reason that men may start dating younger women after 30 is that we tend to have a bit more baggage the older we are.
After 30, many experts agree that women are more interested in commitment than ever before.
"This is when dating services come in handy, to find the others that are available and ready to date." Laura Ryan, a licensed marriage and family therapist, certified hypnotherapist, and certified Imago Relationship Therapist agreed.
"Many eligible men have now gotten married or are in long term relationships because nesting and settling down is something that starts to happen in your late 20s and people begin to marry and have children in their 30s," she said.
Figuring out ways to meet new people, knowing the right things to say, and deciphering the best methods to impress a potential mate can be confusing and overwhelming.
While I count myself lucky that I haven't been on the market for several years (I swear I'm not rubbing it in), many of my friends have become increasingly frustrated by how difficult dating is, especially after 30.